Monday, March 31, 2008

201st post: On Wasted Prodigy and New Mattress

Warning: This first entry rated 18 SX
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Wasted Prodigy, read here (source: News of the World)


Maths prodigy who won an Oxford place at 13 is now a £130-an-hour HOOKER

SHE was a child maths genius who won a place at Oxford University aged just 13—but now the only sums Sufiah Yusof is interested in are the ones she earns as a HOOKER.

For sad Sufiah the daily equation she has to solve is simply sex equals £130 as she sells her body to punters over the internet.

The gifted girl with the winning smile had the world at her feet ten years ago and should be a rich woman by now—but last week she was busy subtracting her underwear for our undercover reporter in her dingy back street flat.

"Would you like to start your half hour now?" said Sufiah, 23, as she danced on the bed, displaying her body for examination.

Then she listed all the sleazy plus points she would throw in for our man if he took up her offer.

Calling herself Shilpa Lee, the former child prodigy still juggles with figures on a hookers' website, describing herself as a "very pretty size 8, 32D bust and 5'5" tall—available for booking every day from 11am to 8pm."

She says she is a "sexy, smart student" who prefers "older gentlemen"— but a former pal who has witnessed her downfall told us: "It is all desperately heartbreaking.

"With her amazing brain she should be able to make money any way she wants. But instead her life has spiralled completely out of control."

Life has never quite added up for Sufiah. Her descent into prostitution in Salford, Manchester, is the latest in a long line of tragedies to have engulfed her since the sunny day when she posed with her university mortar board for the world's press outside prestigious St Hilda's College.

Our shock revelations today come in the week her domineering dad Farooq was jailed for sexually assaulting two 15-year-old girls as he home-tutored them in maths.

And he was always at the root of all her troubles— even as she passed the further maths A-Level she needed for entry to Oxford at the age of 12. In those days Sufia was a strict Muslim child who prayed five times a day and was subjected to her father's famous Accelerated Learning Technique.

Her days involved stretching and breathing exercises in freezing rooms to keep her brain attentive.

Sufiah would then study hard and be forced to play tennis with just as much intensity as fanatical Farooq drove her on. The routine was so effective Sufiah was seeded number eight in the country for under 21s.

But three years into Oxford, the 15-year-old sparked a massive police hunt after running away.

Abuse

At the time her father bizarrely claimed Sufiah had been kidnapped and brainwashed by an organisation seeking the key to her intelligence.

But Sufiah sent an email to her family describing her life under her father as a "living hell".

One message to her sister read: "I've finally had enough of 15 years of physical and emotional abuse. You know what I am talking about."

Sufiah was missing for two weeks before being found in an internet café in Bournemouth where she had been working as a hotel waitress.

She refused to go back to her parents and instead was taken into the care of social services.

It was then revealed that Farooq had been jailed for three years in 1992 for his part in a £1.5m mortgage swindle. Before that—at the age of 19—he had been sent to borstal for his role in a conspiracy involving £100,000.

Free from the spell of her father, Sufiah returned to Oxford to complete the final year of her Masters in Maths.

But she was now more concerned with enjoying herself—and failed to finish the course after meeting trainee lawyer Jonathan Marshall.

They were married in 2004 when Sufiah was just 19 and Jonathan 24. But the strains with her family were still there.

Despite being invited, Sufiah's parents and four brothers and sisters failed to turn up to the wedding.

Her dreams of a happy life with Jonathan were shattered when the couple divorced just a year later.

Now, in her sad little flat, she uses her body to pay the rent. Sufiah met our man, posing as a punter, at the entrance to her building wearing a tiny skirt, leather boots and a tight t-shirt. She was carrying three mobile phones.

She laughed and joked as she led him to her small apartment where a bed was already set out in the lounge.

She told him it was £130 an hour and offered him a glass of water before putting some music on to a cheap portable stereo and nervously stripping down to her red lace bra and knickers.

Sufiah then peeled off her underwear and danced on the bed. She told him she did full sex with a condom and oral sex without protection.

After our man had made his excuses, Sufiah kept him talking by telling him how she was studying for a Masters degree in Economics on a part-time two year course in London.

The former prodigy added: "I've got exams coming up and I'm thinking ‘Oh my God!'"

Once described by her parents as "naïve and unstreetwise", she works alone from her flat without any obvious physical security or protection.

She even admitted to our reporter: "It's always a surprise who you are going to meet."

Cheerful Sufiah gave no indication of any sadness at the jailing of her father the previous day. On Wednesday Farooq, 50, was sentenced to 18 months at Coventry Crown Court for touching two 15-year-old girls when he was home tutoring them at maths.


The court heard how in May last year Farooq arrived at one of the victim's home for a maths lesson.

He started whispering in her ear and kissing her hair and cheek. He also touched her breast and told her she was a genius and pretty before putting her hand on his upper thigh.

Destroyed

Farooq's defence lawyer Tim Hannam said: "He's been back in prison for over five months and knows there'll be no more teaching and any hope he had of gaining an income from the teaching method he had developed to a high degree of success is lost to him. His reputation is destroyed."

Now it's clear the daughter who fled his strict regime has almost been destroyed too.

Her friend said last night: "Sufiah has suffered so many knocks in her life. I just hope she can drag herself out this life she has got herself into.

"She is a good person and deserves a much better life than this. Her gift really has been a curse."




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Second Entry: New Mattress





Model : Golden Age

• Bonnel Spring system
• Imported Damask Ticking
• 10 Years Warranty




I bought a new set of Goodnite mattress last night from a local furniture shop to replace that old, lumpy mattress that I have been using since I came back for good. It costs me RM 360 and so far, I had a good sleep all the way to the morning and felt like i wanna continue lazying meself in bed longer had it not be Monday morning. Good thing, I didnt suffer any Monday blues as I had a rather good restful sleep on that piece of mattress.



I was actually looking around for some idea on what to get for the new house when I decided on getting myself that mattress. I tested it first by lying on it for some good 1 minute or so and felt good. The thing was I only had like RM 50 in my wallet and so I told the salesperson if I could just pay RM 50 deposit now and tomorrow I will pay the balance RM 310. She said OK and they even delivered to my house (parents one) free of charge. Baik kan?


I honestly have never heard of a Goodnite mattress product before. Names like Vono and dunlopillo and also Slumberland do ring a bell . This Goodnite product is pretty much a Made in Malaysia brand and it is made of highly resilient poly-urethane foam , extra sponge padding to add to the comfort and it is equipped with individual pocket spring for better spinal care and body load distribution.

Not only that, to show that they really mean business on providing good quality mattress, Goodnite also provides 10 tips for better sleep:


1. Maintain a regular bed and wake time schedule, including weekends.

2. Establish a regular, relaxing bedtime routine such as soaking in a hot bath or hot tub and then reading a book or listening to soothing music.

3. Create a sleep-conductive environment that is dark, quiet, comfortable and cool.

4. Sleep on a comfortable mattress and pillows.

5. Use your bedroom only for sleep and sex. It is best to take work materials, computers and televisions out of the sleeping environment. (Unfortunately, my bedroom is also where i would love to watch movies on a dvd player and TV as well, and i do need my computer nearby, and yes, I kinda bring my work in the same vicinity as the bedroom though not necessarily on the bed itself! I am planning to have a special study area in my new house but i would also be carrying things to and from the bedroom, therefore #5 tip is a bit beyond my liking apart from totally concurring to the sleep and sex idea.)

6. Finish eating at least two to three hours before your regular bedtime. (Good weight management tip too!)

7. Exercise regularly. It is best to complete your workout at least a few hours before bedtime. (Sexercise included, no?)

8. Avoid nicotine (e.g. cigarettes, tobacco products). Used close to bedtime, it can lead to poor sleep.

9. Avoid caffeine (e.g. coffee, tea, soft drinks, chocolate) close to bedtime. It can keep you awake. (But hot chocolate/ginger tea with milk calm me down, sorta? I should get some pack of chamomile tea too,mix it with honey, that'll help me sleep if ever...)

10. Avoid alcohol close to bedtime. It can lead to disrupted sleep later in the night. (I am a teetotal, therefore this part is not that relevant to me)




This morning, and walking with a cheerful mood, i was stopped by Prof. KS asking me about my sciencefund. Without even feeling wee bit embarrassed, I told him that my application was rejected with a capital R and that it was solely on the basis that my proposed product was of non-commercial value. Betapa bangangnya la panel2 itu....nama pon research, of course laa belum lagi ade commercial value until it is fully viable and hence, to turn it into industrial scale. Prof. KS then adviced me to write a letter defending my proposal just like what he and few other professors did including Prof. WRWD. So nice of them to educate me on what I should do and how to find some solution to it especially that I am a junior lecturer.

Must be that very good night sleep i had sampai tak mimpi apa2 pon...hmmm.....(dream lover, where art thou?)



9 comments:

Siti Khadijah said...

Dear Manal,

Don't give up. Polish it up further and apply for other grants.

ManaL said...

Madam Curi,

Muchas gracias Madam, for your encouragement.

Typhoon Sue said...

i'm actually quite disappointed that u posted the entire story of sufiah with all the pics. Granted, u may not feel sorry for her. Neither do I for that matter, but to publish it again here is somewhat condoning NOTW's tasteless expose. What she does or doesn't do is her own business. If she uses her own name when carrying out those activities of hers, that's different. That means she is prepared for everybody to know what has become of her. But she uses a different name, so there must be some degree of secrecy that she lives by, no matter how much she exposes herself physically at this level. level.

ManaL said...

Sue,

Its quite scandalous i know, and thanks for stating your concerns about it. I pon mula2 was a bit sceptic whether or not to display the whole thing up, but I think I am gonna remove those more offensive photos soon. Not only NOTW but also Daily Mail posted the similar news with similar photos no matter how tacky they were.

But if it really is her, I think she's kinda gutsy in a destructive way.

Typhoon Sue said...

manal, thanks for removing those pics.

I don't think it's anything to do with guts. she may still be a genius and still be able to process academic stuff and all, but if she is chronically unhappy and depressed, the brain won't be able to see certain things clearly, especially life issues - I know, I've been there, although not quite 'there' as in where she is now... :-)

I shudder to think what might happen next. If the story is true, and if she is enjoying that kind of life, then the expose won't hurt her much. But if what she is doing is some kind of manifestation of severe unhappiness, this may humiliate her to no end and drive her to do the unthinkable, ie: suicide. I hope it doesn't get there

Typhoon Sue said...

as for your 2nd story, I wanted to buy a goodnite mattress a few months back, but tak jadi bcoz the shopowner wouldn't let me test baring on it. So I merajuk and tak beli2 sampai sekarang. And now, I sakit belakang hari2 bcoz my old mattress dah kopak dah. The spring dah all loose and senget and ngok-ngek, byk sangat springing activity kut....hehehe

Lee said...

Hi Manal, really sad to read of that poor girl.
I guess it must have been trumatic for her when younger and thus affected her and in a way punishing herself, her father in what she does.
But I think with the right approach, she can still be saved.
Wow, with her maths Incik Bill Gates or IBM or NASA sure would have grabbed her.
Re your new bed....ahhhh, I can imagine how shokalingam to lie down and have a good night's snooze, ha ha.
You didn't think of a waterbed? *wink*.
You stay cool, Manal, best regards, Lee.

ManaL said...

Sue,

1) Last i read, her mom is filing for divorce. Thank god that my father is way lenient and caring even though masa kecik2 dulu penah kena rotan and sebat dgn belt kat bontot and kaki.


2) They didnt let u??? How inconsiderate those people are? Come down to bbbangi and I will take u to that shop. U can haggle with them and they might also deliver goods to ur house FOC even if it is outside kajang range! My 3rd sister bought quite many furnitures there and they delivered them FOC to shah alam.

ManaL said...

Uncle Lee,

Shokalingam? hahahahaha.....not bed laa, only new set of mattress. It's been 3 nights since i slept on it, and it gets cozier and cozier each day. But i am planning to get another queen-sized bed later on for the new house inshallah.

On that girl, yea, she was trained by her parents with one aim: to be above par excellence. Punishing herself would be an understatement as she behaves as if she has found her own absolute liberation on a free-will ticket regardless of how immoral her act is or how detrimental it may be in a long term effect. IMHO, she probably needs a goodhearted, very patient gentleman that will bring her out of her imagenary comfort zone, one who is not as imposing or anything like her father yet will love her warts and all.

I was simply basing on my personal experience. One such man have brought out the real woman in me and since then, I am ever so grateful that there is an angel like him existed on earth to make me realise on so many things. And I wish she will soon meet someone or a few good people who are totally not judgmental, not some political group like what I have read recently that they are coming to meet her to "correct" her?

There are plenty other muslim girls like her who are forced into prostitutions or are doing it on their own will, but why malaysia is trying to politicize whatever become of sufiah, beats me. Correct the local people 1st rather than showing off some unnecessary empathy to sufiah who is not even a malaysian citizen!